John Enos III (born June 12, 1962) is an American actor, known for the role of Bobby Marsino in the soap opera The Young And The Restless from 2003 to 2005. Enos' other screen credits include guest roles on NYPD Blue, Sex And The City (as Samantha's date "Mr. Too Big"), Melrose Place and Murder, She Wrote. He was a fashion model briefly in the 1990s modeling for Boss Models and a friend of supermodel Cindy Crawford. He is currently married to Jennie Lee..